don’t fucking cheat psa #234958723457
here’s the thing.
my ex and i broke up last november. so over a year ago, yeah? and her and i have made peace with one another, and genuinely wish each other the best (at least from my understanding). so in vague- yes we are both clearly over one another. i’m literally dating someone who i plan to marry and she’s dating other people.
but i still have fucking problems. i get nervous when my girlfriend hangs out with other attractive girls/guys. i get scared that our relationship will evolve into something purely physical. i get scared that i’m not enough, and that she’s just putting on a show. i get scared that she’s lying to me.
and she is the most honest, loyal, kind-heated woman i know. i am so, incredibly lucky in that she cares about me enough to be patient and work through these issues.
when you cheat one someone? remember that whether or not you guys work it out- you engraved some fucked up shit in their brain that will take a great deal of time to erase. so maybe save everybody some time and trauma, and just break up with someone if you’re going to fuck them up like that.
